When does a brush grow best? After it’s been cut back. Every fall my mom cuts all the branches off of the brushes in front of our house. Once, strong, budding limbs become pudgy stumps. They do not look very pretty this way and if you are not a gardener then you might ask why someone would do such a thing. However, if you are a gardener then you know that this is necessary for growth. The branches and leaves that die when the weather gets colder need to be removed. In the spring, the branches will grow back bigger and stronger than ever. They grow best after they have been cut back.
This is similar to what happens to us when we go through hard times. Life is a continuous cycle of ups and downs. We go through different seasons in life. When a family member dies we might feel so down that we do not know how we will ever live again. Or when a relationship is severed we may feel like our live will never be good again. But, there is always hope. When we overcome our hardships we grow. When we look back and see the path that we took and eventually conquered we learn.
Look at the words of 1 Peter 1:6-7.
“In all this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials. These have come so that the proven genuineness of your faith—of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire—may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed.”
God does not delight in our pain, nor does he enjoy watching us suffer, but he does rejoice in our accomplishments when we emerge victorious from a seemingly impossible situation. It might seem like a life without all the ‘pruning’ would be nice, but without it we would never grow or learn or change. So when you start feeling like the sun is never going to shine on you again, just remember that the pain is necessary and that you will be stronger in the end because of what you have been through.